
By Jam Press
‘I’ve never orgasmed during sex – not even my husband can get me off,’ says ‘frustrated’ OnlyFans model.
OnlyFans model Karmen Karma has discussed the fact that she’s never had an orgasm during sex despite being married for seven years – but her husband will stop at nothing to make it happen.
Karmen Karma, 30, who lives in Hawaii, US, works as an Instagram influencer (@karmenkarma.tv) and OnlyFans model, making $2 million a year on the site. But while most people would expect a sex-positive model who has slept with over 300 men to have orgasms on the regular, Karmen has actually never enjoyed climax during sex – and says “nothing works”.
“I’ve never had an orgasm during sex,” Karmen told Jam Press. “I always thought it would happen eventually and I’ve been with men in the past who were very well-endowed and knew what they’re doing, but I’ve had to fake it every single time. “They didn’t know I was faking it though as I always put on a performance.
“My husband knows I have never had an orgasm though, I tell him all the time. “He feels bad that I can’t climax during sex and wants to help but I’m not sure what the problem is.”
Karmen isn’t alone; according to recent figures from Medline, about 10-15% of women have never had an orgasm – but that’s little comfort to the model, who worries something is “wrong” with her. She said: “I want to find out what’s wrong with me – whether my vagina can simply just not orgasm or if it’s a mental block? “I’m hoping one day this mystery will be solved so I can finally climax during sex.” One doctor discusses possible solutions and if the problem can’t be remedied, at least there are workarounds to try.
An older research story has theorized that the problem could lie in simple measurement calculations. Get out your tape measures! The “rule of thumb” analysis suggests that the farther the vagina is from the clitoris, the harder it will be for a woman to orgasm.
For Karma, the dilemma persists, but not for lack of trying. As a former performer in the adult film industry for nine years, Karmen has enjoyed plenty of bedroom antics with men of all shapes and sizes, but none have ever managed to get her the Big O. Her husband, who prefers to stay nameless for privacy reasons, says the fact he can’t give his wife an orgasm only makes him want to try harder. He said: “Honestly it makes me feel bad for her and also for women in general.
“Men have it so much easier than women in many ways, especially when it comes to sex. “I wish that I had known earlier in life that women don’t orgasm the same as men do and need many more steps to get to that point and climax.
“I think in big part it’s due to the fact that sexual education is so much focused on ‘not getting pregnant’ that it completely skips over the reason why most people have sex, which is for fun. “It makes me want to try harder to understand her and make her feel the same pleasure that I do.”
Although she can’t climax during sex, the OnlyFans star can sometimes orgasm through masturbation – but still finds it “extremely difficult” to get there. She hasn’t sought professional help yet but is hoping to find a specialist who can tell her where the issue stems from – and what she can do about it.
Karmen said: “Not being able to orgasm doesn’t put me off having sex, if anything it makes me want to have more so I can hopefully figure out how to do it. “Sex is still enjoyable because it does feel good but it gets frustrating that I can never finish and experience what most people experience do. “I have orgasmed through masturbation but even that can be extremely difficult for me.”
Karmen still has high hopes that she might experience climax during sex in the future and her husband is determined to do his part. She added: “I’ve had many men try to make me orgasm – especially during my years as a porn star – but it’s just never happened. “I still want to have as much sex as I can to hopefully figure out how to do it. “I’ve had many men try to make me orgasm and I still shoot content with other men, aside from my husband, for my OnlyFans. “Maybe it will eventually happen in the future. A girl can hope.”